Archive for November, 2008

Giving Thanks

71e54931f2f47f14Hopefully you all had a great Thanksgiving (or, at our house, “No Turkey Day!”) which focused more on thankfulness and less on food.  We are so blessed in this country; the last thing we need to do is stuff ourselves with more food – or stuff, for that matter.  Greed and gluttony are sins.  This is something we are loathe to remember in the United States, especially during the holidays, which is why I’m going to focus on thankfulness, charity and GIVING as we continue through this holiday season. 

I would like to start by encouraging you to join the 29 Day Giving Challenge.  You can read more about it here:

http://29gifts.org/

Basically, you find a way to give something every day for 29 days.  You can share your stories on the 29gifts website, but I’d love it if you’d e-mail me your stories as well (seewhykinsman@yahoo.com).  Remember, you don’t always have to give THINGS that cost money.  You may also give your TIME, TALENT, and RESOURCES.  Maybe you give away something you buy, but maybe you give away something you already own, but no longer need.  You benefit from less clutter, stress and mess while blessing someone else.  Just remember, no one wants your JUNK.  So many people only give items they can’t otherwise sell.  Any item you give away should be something you would be GLAD to RECEIVE in its AS IS condition.  Maybe you give the gift of forgiveness, maybe you call someone with whom you’ve lost touch, maybe you connect with a stranger who seems to be in need of an encouraging word.

Are you up to the challenge?  I can promise you’ll be more BLESSED by accepting the challenge than anyone you bless as a result.  You’ll likely find it’s so easy and enjoyable to give that you’ll want to carry on beyond the initial 29 days.  Go on!  I dare you!

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Thankful for . . . Grace

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I’m going to take a break the rest of this week and let you all have a break as well so you can focus on the holiday preparations and being thankful.

As you know, I’m a vegan, which means I don’t eat any animal products:  dairy, meat, eggs, honey.  I’m very thankful that most of my family and friends are supportive of my veganism.  Even mere acquaintances are gracious — that’s Southern hospitality and charm at work (I live in Alabama).  So many vegans and vegetarians have to deal with teasing and insensitve comments from the carnivores in their lives.  Vegetarian Times recently asked their readers for their favorite responses in this type of situation.  My favorite:  “Why just say grace when you can practice it instead?”  Why, indeed?!  Have a Happy No-Turkey Day.

I’ll see you back her after the long holiday weekend on Monday, December 1st.  In the interim, feel free to post a comment or send me an e-mail (seewhykinsman@yahoo.com) about what makes you thankful this year!

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Book Review: The Greatest Words Ever Spoken

greatest_words_coverIt’s not very often that a book comes along and makes you want to read or refer to it over and over and over again.  An example of this is Prayers That Avail Much; whenever you need to pray but don’t have the words, you go to this book and are able to pray the scriptures which means you’re praying according to God’s will since He is always looking for His word to perform it.   Well, today I have the opportunity to read and review just such a book!

The Greatest Words Ever Spoken, Everything Jesus Said About You, Your Life and Everything Else by Steven K. Scott, is a must-buy book.  The author has compiled all the words actually spoken in the Bible by Jesus (the red text in many versions of the Bible) and divided them under headings by topic.  For example, if you want to know everything Jesus ever said about “Love”, you  look up “Love” in the Table of Contents and find all the scriptures containing Jesus’ spoken words on the topic of love, complete with citations.  Other topic examples are:  Pride, Healing, The Spirit Versus the Flesh, Children, Marriage, Divorce and Remarriage, Anger, Compassion, and so very many more.  There also is a subject index and a scripture index.  The book contains over 1,900 statement of Jesus organized under more than 200 topics.  It’s so powerful to read all of Jesus’ words on a particular subject without the intervening scriptures.  Many of the scriptures are so familiar to the reader, but when you read all of Jesus’ quotes on a certain issue, the familiar scriptures look fresh and different somehow.  To be honest, it’s almost overwhelming to read Jesus’ words this way.  It feels like he’s speaking to you, literally. 

Me:  Jesus, why don’t I feel the joy I should as a believer?

Jesus:  John 10:10 “The thief does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy.  I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly.” (NKJV)  John 15:9-14  “As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you.  Now remain in my love.  If you obey my commands, you will remain in my love, just as I have obeyed my Father’s commands and remain in His love.  I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete. . . . 

See what I mean?  Powerful conversation!

This book is over 500 pages long and is a comprehensive and valuable tool for Bible study, prayer, and knowing and doing the will of God.  The only drawback is the author uses the New International Version of the Bible almost exclusively.  While I understand the NIV is popular as a “reader friendly” version, I’m not fond of this translation for its anti-Semitic bent.  That said, this book is still an extremely valuable tool for “conversing with the Master”.

Below is a summary from the publisher.  Unfortunately, this book review does not include a giveaway, but trust me when I say you’re going to want to buy this book for your reference library.  You can purchase it from www.amazon.com and other favorite booksellers.

Book Summary:

Every Word of Jesus Right at Your Fingertips

Haven’t you wished you could ask Jesus any question and get his immediate help with the biggest problems you face? Now you can.

For the first time ever, all of the statements Jesus made in the New Testament have been brought together and organized under more than 200 topics. When you want to know his will in a specific area of life, or you’re seeking the answer to a perplexing question, or you are desperate for his encouragement, comfort, or wisdom–you can easily find the help you need.
The moment you turn to the appropriate topic heading, you will have access to the breadth of Jesus’ teaching on that subject. You can also use this book as a guide for studying Jesus’ wisdom on any topic of interest, such as prayer, forgiveness, eternity, anger, temptation, relationships, grace, or knowing God.

Millionaire and best-selling author Steve Scott was once unemployed and hopeless; today he is wealthy, healthy and happily married with children. Ask Scott what made the difference and he’ll tell you the daily application of biblical Scripture, particularly Jesus Christ’s words, to his decisions transformed his life. In his newest title, The Greatest Words Ever Spoken, Scott presents more than 1,900 of Jesus’ statements by topic, providing readers instant access to the counsel of Christ and the same potential for dramatic life change.“As I read one particular topic, it was like each statement Jesus made penetrated deeper and deeper into my soul,” writes Gary Smalley in the book’s forward. “I’ve never felt anything as powerful.” Indeed it is the author’s belief that the study of Jesus’ statements without the interruption of commentary or explanation intensifies the positive impact on the life of the reader as well as provides the critical groundwork for further spiritual direction.

As you immerse yourself in Jesus’ words, your life and relationships will be transformed, and your faith and spiritual passion will be renewed. Let the greatest words ever spoken bring new vision, power, and joy into your life–one statement at a time.
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Book Giveaway Winners and “America Recycles Day”

mothers_wish_cover1Congratulations to Rebeka of Tulsa, Oklahoma, and Cindy of Foley, Alabama, our winners of My Mother’s Wish, An American Christmas Carol by Jerry Camery-Hoggart.   If you didn’t win, you can purchase a copy (or several for holiday gifts) on www.amazon.com

america_recycles1I also wanted to alert everyone that November 15th is America Recycles Day.  Here’s the link to the National Recycling Coalition:

http://www.nrc-recycle.org/recycling101.aspx

Click the above link to take the pledge and find great tips on recycling — regardless of how much you already know (and do) about recycling, you can always learn more!

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Drawing for Book Giveaway Tomorrow

mothers_wish_cover2Don’t forget to enter the drawing for one of two copies of My Mother’s Wish, An American Christmas Carol by Jerry Camery-Hoggatt.  The drawing will be tomorrow morning!

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One of the Greatest Lies in Religion

Yesterday I wrote about the crosses that each of us bears and the reasons God may ask us to do so, as well as the reasons God give each of us different trials and to varying degrees. 

This reminds me of one of the biggest myths circulating among believers:

God won’t give you more than you can bear.

This is usually said in a well intentioned, albeit holier-than-thou, why-are-you-whining-you-faithless-heathen voice.  Either that, or it’s said by the person going through something God-sized as they self-flagellate.

What a crock!  A myth!  A fallacy!  A lie!

God frequently give us more than we can bear.  WHY?  So we rely on Him, not ourselves.  Think about it, the Bible is replete with examples of God giving us more than we can bear:  Abraham couldn’t father a nation without God (a fact painfully obvious in that he tried and caused war in the Middle East until Messiah returns!), Moses couldn’t deliver the Israelites without God (Pharoh didn’t even respond to 6 of the 7 plagues and even after the 7th plague, he had second thoughts and set out in pursuit of them).  

Think about God’s battle plans:  the people were always outnumbered and the methods of battle were always ludicrous:  march around the walled city 7 times, bang your jars, put the worshipers on the front lines, and, my personal favorite, just stand there and the enemy will kill each other for you.  WHY?  So the people would know they couldn’t do it without God.  So He would get all the glory.

Has God changed or is He the same yesterday, today and forever?  Do you still think God wouldn’t give you more than you could bear?  Or do you think He absolutely, positively would make a habit of giving you more than you could bear so you’d learn to rely on Him and realize you can’t do anything without Him? 

The next time you hear someone spread that lie, speak up and give someone the peace that comes in knowing you’re not a weak-willed, faithless worm, but exactly in the place where God wants you . . . the place where you are willing to accept His help. 

BOOK GIVEAWAY REMINDER:  I have two copies of My Mother’s Wish, An American Christmas Carol by Jerry Gamery-Hoggatt, to give away (see Monday’s review of the book).  Just send your name and mailing address to seewhykinsman@yahoo.com to register for My Mother’s Wish.  TWO winners will be drawn at random this Friday, November 21st.  Good luck! 
 

 

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This Question is a Thorn In My Side

“We all have our crosses to bear.” This phrase is so well worn, I wonder sometimes if people really stop to think about what it means. Basically, there are some things that God removes from us, some things He requires us to persevere through, and some things He makes us struggle against always. Paul had a cross, a “thorn in his side”. He asked God repeatedly to take it away and finally accepted it as his “cross to bear” to keep him humble. (2 Corinthians 12:7-9, Galatians 4:13-14)

Recently I was talking to two women with addictions. One is a recovering alcoholic; one has an eating disorder. The alcoholic was delivered from her addiction seemingly overnight. She knows she’s an alcoholic and can never, ever, under any circumstances drink, but she’s blessed enough that she doesn’t “white knuckle” every day like so many alcoholics and drug addicts who count down the days ad infinitum. The woman who has the eating disorder is not so fortunate; she does have to white knuckle every hour of every day. The question came up, “Why doesn’t God deliver you like He delivered me?!”

Why, indeed?!

Why did God deliver Paul from prison and allow Stephen to be beheaded? Did he love Paul more? Why did God allow John to die of old age and Peter to be crucified? Was He holding a grudge over Peter’s denial of Yeshua? Why did God close the mouths of the lions with Daniel, but allow thousands of other Christians to become kitten chow?

How would you feel if you were the wife or child of any of these “less fortunate” followers of the Master? Would you look at the wife or daughter of someone who was miraculously delivered and wonder why God favored that family over you and yours?

It is an age old question to wonder, “Why do bad things happen to good people?” In fact, this is the title of the bestselling book by Rabbi Harold S. Kushner. Several years ago I heard a sermon by Dr. Charles Stanley on this very subject that I think is right on the money. Dr. Stanley said, very simply, that God’s call on your life is not the same as His call on my life. Period.

While that might not be a very satisfying answer, when you think about it, it really is the only answer. God gives each one of us different gifts, calls, and talents. He allows different experiences, trials, opportunities and tests to propel us on the path for which He has designed us. Add to that free will and all the detours our choices add to complicate our paths.

Each of us is a unique creation. God uses one person to accomplish His purpose over here and another person to accomplish His purpose over there. He allows certain things into each of our lives, for a short time, for a long time or forever to teach and grow us, to keep us in check or propel us along. My friend who is the alcoholic has recently been given another cross to bear. I told her, “Maybe God delivered you from alcoholism many years ago because He knew you couldn’t handle alcoholism and this new issue, too.” Whereas, I’m sure God has a reason for allowing my other friend to struggle with an eating disorder every day. Maybe to teach her to rely on His strength and not her own?  Maybe to teach her that only He can true provide comfort?  Maybe to show her that the only way to control her life is to give up control over everything in her life, including food, to Him? The point is that God gives us different positives and negatives, different paths, different trials, different everything.

Job had to endure incredible hardships because God intended for him to be an example throughout the ages. Job also was extraordinarily blessed, both before and after his trials and tribulations. When you think about it, all the Biblical “greats” had to endure much suffering, while they received extraordinary rewards. For every Biblical example — Abraham, Noah, Isaiah, Paul, Peter, John – there were thousands of others who had lessening degrees of “peaks” and “valleys”.  They didn’t endure a lot in the way of trials, but also didn’t receive a lot in the way of blessings, comparatively speaking to the Biblical greats. Just as in our lives, some of us have good health, while others are blessed with good finances. Some of us have occasional trials and some of us seem cursed. Why?! I don’t know, specifically, but this is where we need to trust that God knows what He’s doing with your life and He knows what He’s doing with my life. His call on my life is unique and so are the crosses He calls me to bear. Each one serves a purpose in His plan. We need to take care not to get jealous when God doesn’t deliver me as He does you, or when He doesn’t bless me the same way He blesses you. Plus, we need to remember that much is required of the one to whom much is given.

BOOK GIVEAWAY REMINDER:  I have two copies of My Mother’s Wish, An American Christmas Carol by Jerry Gamery-Hoggatt, to give away (see Monday’s review of the book).  Just send your name and mailing address to seewhykinsman@yahoo.com to register for My Mother’s Wish.  TWO winners will be drawn at random this Friday, November 21st.  Good luck!

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My Mother’s Wish Book Review and Giveaway

mothers_wish_coverMy Mother’s Wish, An American Christmas Carol, by Jerry Camery-Hoggatt, is a sweet little Christmas story told with the imagery of  Garrison Keillor, if Garrison Keillor had the bizarre sense of humor and imagination of Tim Burton. 

My Mother’s Wish tells the story of Ellee, a young girl who embraces being “contrariwise” in every sense of the word.  She insists on being her own person, defying the mold her strong willed, proper mother has created for her.  She resists her given (read “forced upon”) nae of Eleanor and the image it conjures. 

Ellee paints word pictures that will make the reader feel 8 years old all over again.  In fact, her narrative style will remind you of Scout in To Kill a Mockingbird.   Ellee is wise beyond her years, funny and sadly misunderstood.  But in the end, she is loved and accepted for who she really is.  This is a tale of reconcilliation . . . a wry, hilarious, sad little tale of eventual acceptance and forgiveness.  Thankfully, Christmas morning comes just in time.

Here’s the summary of the book provided by the publisher:

An affecting tale, My Mother’s Wish will remind you of the power of grand hopes and effect of impossible expectations. You’ll witness the influence every life has on another, and you’ll find new reasons to believe in the comfort and joy in an everyday, American version of the story of Christmas: being known and loved, just as you are.

I have two copies of this book to giveaway.  Just send your name and mailing address to seewhykinsman@yahoo.com to register for My Mother’s Wish.  TWO winners will be drawn at random this Friday, November 21st.  Good luck!  If you don’t win, you can buy this book from www.amazon.com and other booksellers.  It would make a great holiday gift.

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Jane Goodall

225px-jane_goodall_hkI read a fascinating article about Jane Goodall this week.  She described how she tried to blend in while studying chimpanzees in the wild in Africa, observing their social interactions, communication, etc.  There were several occasions when an aggressive male chimp would jump on her back or drag her along the ground and all she could do is pray.  On on occasion she saw a chimp fashioning a blade of grass into a tool to capture termite grubs — an amazing sight since only humans were believed to use tools.  Goodall’s telegram to the great anthropologist Louis Leakey prompted his famous reply:  “Now we must redefine tool, redefine man or accept chimpanzees as human.”

To be honest, sometimes I think describing animals with human attributes is rather insulting . . . to the animals! 

Have a good weekend.  Make sure you check back on Monday for another book review and opportunity win one of two copies of the book, My Mother’s Wish, An American Christmas Carol by Jerry Camery-Hoggatt.

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Water

water1 in 6 people don’t have access to clean drinking water.  Check out charitywater.org where $20 can give one person drinking water for 20 years.  While you’re at it, vow to stop buying bottled water (40% of all bottled water is simply tap water, and plastic bottles are destroying our environment from their manufacture to disposal) and donate the money you save every week to this organization or another reputable environmental charity.

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